How to wake up after falling – The Failures’ Story
There
are many people who, despite tireless efforts, face failure and defeat in life.
Such people think that success is not in their fate. But the person should
never panic. Dale Carnegie also said that failure creates success. Frustration
and failure are the two surest pillars of success. Just need to make some
changes in yourself. So, today we are telling you about some such things, after
which success in life can be found very easily.
A story is also written for to so that you will be motivated and keep working
even after failures. Read the full story below.
Before reading the story, read the following tips. The tips would help you to know How you can become strong even after failing several times. Failures come to give you a lesson. So, learn from that and avoid making the same mistake the next time.
What should you do to overcome failures and become stronger?
- Listen to your heart
The
result of every person's life is different. For someone, success means earning
a lot of name and money, then one finds happiness in their work by finding
happiness. So in order to achieve success, you must first stop listening to
others and ask yourself what you want from your life. When you get the answer,
then start to complete it. Swami Vivekananda also said that set the goal of
your life and remove all other thoughts from your mind. This is the capital of
success.
- Learn decision making
In
life, the same person moves forward, who takes some drastic decisions in his
life. The decisions of some people take them to new heights. At the same time, sometimes
due to wrong decisions, you have to start everything from the beginning.
But
this does not mean that the person should stop taking decisions for fear of
defeat. In a situation of confusion, the person does not reach any decision and
some good opportunities are left out of his hands. So it is better to repent
later than you trust yourself and also learn to take courage and take some
complicated decisions.
- Accept deficiencies
It
is a universal truth that no person is perfect in life. Everyone definitely has
some shortcomings. But if a person not only recognizes those shortcomings but
accepts them and makes up his shortcomings, then no one can stop them from
being successful.
At the same time, there are some people who keep on crying about their mistakes in
the past and stop believing in themselves. Such a person never tastes of
success in life. Always remember that Success is the result of hard work and smart work.
Failures' Story - How Failures helps you?
Here is a short story on failure and how it can help you to be successful and stronger.
A
friend of mine is deeply disturbed by the red lights on the streets of the
city. It is said that the journey of ten kilometers, which should be completed
in ten minutes, he does not complete even in half an hour due to these red
lights. These red lights are a big problem.
Now
consider that if these red lights are not there, will we reach our destination
soon?
Probably
not. It would not be possible. The need for red lights only came so that we
could reach our destination quickly. Every red light is a proof that we will
soon overcome this obstacle and move forward because like night and day it is
sure to be green after red and red light after green.
The
more red lights we cross, the closer our goal will become. Like the traffic
signal, there are many obstacles or obstacles in our way of life. Constraint
only means that we are moving forward.
The day when all obstacles on our paths will be overcome and we will reach our
destination. If these obstacles does not come to our way and we don’t struggle
to remove them, what would happen to us?
Would
we feel the happiness or success of reaching our destination?
No
way of life is easy or uninterrupted. The road to success passes through many
failures. Many small failures are hidden behind success. Sometimes, to make a
big stone piece, we have to hit it with innumerable blows, and in the end there
is a strike that divides the stone into two or more pieces.
But
were all the strikes before the final strike futile?
No,
of course not. Every strike from above seems pointless, but every strike was
completely worthwhile because the success of the last strike was hidden in
those strikes. Every injury continuously brought that stone closer to breaking.
In
fact, every failure is an effort that we do not value and without that failure, success is not possible. As far as learning is concerned, one learns from
failure rather than success.
After
every failure there is an opportunity for re-evaluation. But do we ever
re-evaluate ourselves?
We
never re-evaluate after achieving the success. We do not find a way without
problems. Problems only lead us to find solutions. Only after problems or
failures, we become more reflective and we also develop patience.
Only
after failures, we try to find out the cause of failure. Be aware of your
shortcomings and limitations. Develop your ability to move forward anew. If we
are able to progress a little without removing obstacles, without developing
our ability and ability, then it cannot be called success.
Every
failure in life presents the basis of opportunity for any major success. This
fact is equally true not only in terms of the individual but also in the
context of society, nation, and the world. It has been said that unfavorable or
odd circumstances manifest talent and prosperity is omitted.
A normal person cannot accept this fact and that is why he fails, cannot succeed.
The successful person is the one who tries not to get frustrated even in the
event of failure, and to accept the odds and move forward, because of the key to
success lies in this effort.
The main reason for failure is the lack of effort or failure. Odd or unfavorable
conditions do not obstruct, but provide us with an opportunity to move forward,
to raise ourselves higher.
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